It seems like a pretty simple question. But it is one that haunts the family and friends of Cynthia McNeil. After our story appeared Monday, several local TV stations followed up with stories on the McNeil family and their ordeal since Cynthia was struck Nov. 5. I have always wondered about the anguish someone must feel who has fled the scene of this kind of accident. Unless you have absolutely no feelings at all, it must be horrible. Somewhere, a car is likely sitting under a tarp or in a garage with serious front-end damage. The person who was driving that car likely has damage to their psyche as well. But it's nowhere near the hell that the McNeil family is going through. I hope the driver turns themselves in soon.